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Wendy Wright's avatar

I’m new to your writing but, at 70 now I have come to understand that ‘poor’ in monetary terms is a false measurement. To be poor in spirit & awareness of life & nature & books is the true poverty. I look forward to more of your work. Thank you 🌼

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Patrick M. Lydon's avatar

Thank you for the note, Wendy! Yes! I look forward to more of us helping each other become rich in spirit and awareness and all of those things you note :-)

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Jennifer J. Li's avatar

Thank you for posting this beautiful essay. I lived in rural Japan for a few years after college, and this reminded me of my time there (although my apartment was a bit more modern). Unfortunately, as a twenty-something year-old I couldn't fully appreciate the slower and simpler lifestyle back then and often wished I lived in the city, but now that I'm in my late thirties and live in the Bay Area, I really miss a lot about that time - the low cost of living, the rich social circle I shared with both other expats and the local Japanese, and the attention paid to small details and enhancing ordinary life that is so missing in the US and so valued in Japan. And most definitely the small cafes and pubs, and the sentos/onsens!

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Patrick M. Lydon's avatar

Thank you, Jennifer! It is so interesting, especially since I come from the Bay Area. I always found little bits of these qualities in places there, in a few little alleys in SF or San Jose, an old family-owned shop in Chinatown or Japantown, or a little Taqueria. But I always felt frustrated that those small pockets that I thought were the most beautiful examples were only small pockets, and that they always seemed to be fighting to exist rather than being celebrated and supported to exist.

Anyway, thanks for sharing these beautiful thoughts. I hope every place can find more ways to support the small, beautiful, economically sane ways of being and doing. Also, it feels like you are one of the people I was searching for in the Bay but never met, haha. If you find yourself in Korea, come say hi to us ;-)

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Pooja's avatar

Thank you for writing this! The world needs these reminders, now more than ever. Every time I am told it’s a tragedy to be ‘poor’ ( in economic terms) I remind myself how content and in the moment the ‘poor’ seem to be. I wonder if there will ever be a time when we stop measuring ‘poverty’ in just monetary terms.

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Patrick M. Lydon's avatar

Thank you for the note, Pooja. Yes, I hope there will be such a time when it is normal to measure wealth without speaking of money. I think that time has come for many of us already :-)

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Larry Bone's avatar

What an amazing post. Since Japan is northeast Asia, I wonder if there is any way this model might be transplanted to India or whether there is any village that operates on a similar dynamic. Or maybe it is a luck by chance of proximity to nonmaterialistic values. How the past, particularly in Japan has some nonmaterialtic ideas that promoted life rather than overstress it like silicon (almost wrote silicone valley) valley. Ideas the might bring out the best in human nature instead of the worst or unstable or devolutionary? Anyway great post with much to think about.

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Patrick M. Lydon's avatar

Thanks so much, Larry! For sure, it seems easier to realize out here. But someone else just mentioned they noticed the same phenomenon in Russia. I've heard of several 'ecovillages' in India, but I suppose that is not really the same thing. I would bet this kind of neighborhood can happen anywhere though, so long as enough people in a place can cultivate the kind of mindset or value system to bring it about.

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Larry Bone's avatar

Thanks for mentioning the eco villages in India. I will research that. My Substack is named India Street and anything on ecovillages in India I could find might make a really good article. Thanks again.

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Prashant Pundir's avatar

As someone who is wholeheartedly tired of the capitalist culture we are living in, this was really soothing to read <3

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Patrick M. Lydon's avatar

Likewise, it feels soothing to read this comment. Thank you 😊

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Marta Blum's avatar

What an inspiring article 🤍 I soaked every single word, finding myself dreaming of a world like this around me.

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Patrick M. Lydon's avatar

Thank you Marta! Let's keep dreaming, and doing 😊

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Josefa Sandoval's avatar

Hermoso post, gracias por mostrar este pequeño rincon del mundo

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Patrick M. Lydon's avatar

De nada, gracias por tomarte el tiempo de escribir una nota.

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Caroline Howard's avatar

An evocative sense of place and an interesting perspective.

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Patrick M. Lydon's avatar

Thanks for taking the time to share this with me, Caroline :-)

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Paul Dotta's avatar

You have a beautiful little house. 🙏

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Amy Chin's avatar

Lovely writing and loving Patrick.

My husband and I are picking up our lives and moving them to Japan this summer One of my favorite things from our visit was all the small businesses. I loved the little cafes run by one person operating just the way they wanted. It made everything feel like art. It sounds crazy to say it but I cannot think of a little cafe that’s didn’t feel like a slice of intentional creation.

Excited to read more of your writing!

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Patrick M. Lydon's avatar

Thank you Amy, and you’re totally not crazy on the cafe vibe. Or, if you are, then I’m right there with you, haha. Wishing you and your husband a beautiful restart in Japan!

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amy's avatar

That's so wholesome 💗

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Dr Miki from Japan's avatar

This was very interesting!! Thank you for sharing.

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Patrick M. Lydon's avatar

Thanks Paul! It was a good time 😄

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