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Yes, I am going to answer all of your questions! The imagery of you leaning into the oden with the steam filling your nose also invokes a Miyazaki moment in Spirited Away when the parents are hungry. I OFTEN find a sense of belonging in a variety of places. I gave myself the name 'Many Homes' (which I recognize might be cultural appropriation from Indigenous American tribes). I certainly felt at home in Japan in many ways...the tie between nature and spirituality there is a big pull for me. I think learning to speak the language is one way we can cultivate deeper connections..as a way of showing respect for the culture and a way to actually connect. My Japanese is very poor (3 years of H.S. plus 1.5 years of Duolingo) so many of my interactions were single words..but they made such a difference to me! When a lady made me a matcha ice cream cone at 9 am , we laughed when I called it asagohan. When a dog's bark,asking his human for a treat, shattered the calm at a shrine, she apologized. I said 'Tabemasho!' and she said 'Takusan'. These interactions fill me with a warm glow and a lil pride.

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